Monday, December 8, 2008
Love Or Bread
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Turning 29
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Boxing
Getting into boxing was like hitting 2 birds with 1 stone. I get to excercise and at the same time I get to release all the stress with every punch that I release. I feel good after my 2 hour sessions.
Normally, my session would start with warm up excercises and stretching. I like the stretching part. Then I also have abdominal excercises - the killer! I know I need the abs excercises so much but I just can't take the pain. But as my trainer would always tell me "no pain, no gain". Oh my! Do I have a choice?
I haven't boxed for a month now. A change in my lifestyle has prevented me from going to gym and do some punching. Hopefully, when everything settles I can get back to boxing again. But for now Lance is doing the boxing.
Monday, November 24, 2008
Toddler School
Me: Why baby?
I guess I'd better make my research right now.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Monday, November 17, 2008
Toys Galore
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
LSS...
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
I Survived SAHM
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Love You Very Much
My first teacher was GMEP. I befriended her during my freshmen days in UP. She was my school mate in high school, we had common friends but we dont belong to the same circle of friends. She had her own circle of friends while I was with my kinder-elementary-highschool-to-forever friends (my all for one one for all friends). I didn’t expect that I would be spending my college life with her. My college life was a different experience and I owe it to her. She was not afraid to show her affection – my exact opposite. She exudes warmth and it is contagious. She was not afraid to say I love you – to a friend, to a family member even to the opposite sex (ahem, no squealing for GMEP!) And I sort of adapted from her the congeniality and learned from her that it wont hurt you if you say I love you.
Today, my teacher is my son. Last night I went home late because my gym hours got extended. So we didn’t have much playtime. He asked me to sit beside him. This was our conversation
LF: Mommy tabi (pointing to the spot beside him)
Me: Ok. What do you want?
LF: Sit. (still pointing to the spot beside him) Play ayo. (Lets play)
Me: Ok. (so I sat beside him)
LF: Mommy babu ery much (love you very much)
Me: Love you too babey.
Saying I love you definitely didn’t hurt. In fact it has healed me. It has erradicated all the stress in my system – including the mucscle pains!
Monday, October 20, 2008
Second Chances
Those who got their second chances were lucky or should I say blessed. But for those who didn’t it felt like the world is against them. Just recently, someone close to me was both given and denied of a second chance. Why both? As the saying goes, when a door closes another opens. I have realized whenever shit happens hope afloats and I have proved it maybe not in my own life but in the lives of the people around me.
Second chances are disguised in ugly packaging sometimes so we have to ask Him to give us our second chance, the right one for us. As what my mentor would often tell me, pray for it, ask for it and give it all up to Him and you will be shown the way.
So to you my friend, I suggest that you do this: take the load off your shoulders, leave your regrets behind, stop looking at the door that has closed behind you because they will never open it up for you again. Look ahead because your second chance is there right infront of you. But remember to pray before you grab it.
Thursday, October 16, 2008
All For One, One For All
I was browsing thru friendster and found this pic in one of the photo albums of my friends.
This was taken 6 years ago and this was the last time that we had a reunion. All 5 of us got together for C’s wedding. Well, we had no choice but to be present on her wedding or else she will hate us forever. Looking at this pic brings back the old times. We have been friends since Kindergarten. We might have different circle of friends but we made sure that we ate our lunches together and went home together.
We’ve had numerous fights and tampuhan moments but we stayed by each other’s side during the hard times. I really dont know when we will have our next reunion, L and G are already living abroad but I hope that despite the distance we will still remain friends and hopefully our sons and daughters will continue this friendship.
P.S. Dear Hubby, here’s the evidence of that fateful day...look at my attire you think its my intention to go swimming that day?
Monday, October 13, 2008
Begin Again
BEGIN AGAIN
Friday, October 3, 2008
Signing In
- He sleeps on his own bed now.
- He is becoming more and more talkative and can speak in sentences
- He can sing the alphabet song and twinkle twinkle straight without my help
- Before he sleeps he returns his toys in his toy box. "Mommy keep toys."
- He knows when to say excuse me, please and sorry. He even gets mad when someone barges into his territory without saying "excuse me"
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Almost A Month
Sunday, August 31, 2008
One Tree Hill: One More Time
Season 5 was more of a fit for me right now because it focused on the characters' lives after college. Unlike the other 4 seasons, it was mostly high school life, even if the actors don't look like high school students. I have watched the fast forward over the net - the fast forward was an overview of season 5 so that you will have a better understanding when the season starts.
Four years after college the Tree Hill guys were doing their stuff, pursuing their passion and making their dreams come true. But at one point they all realized that they will be happier if they go back to Tree Hill and make their dreams come true there.
I can totally relate. I always look back and asked myself "What if after graduation I went home and started my career there?" Truly, there's no place like home but I know I wouldn't have learned and matured this much if I went home. No regrets.
The best episode, for me, in that season was episode 18, the season ender. It was where Marvin was given the big break by the TV station he's working for. He was covering the Ravens basketball game and captured all the drama during the game, first hand. He's got the story that could bring him a step closer to his dreams. But he chose not to tell story. Why? Because all the drama involved his friends and their reputations. Obviously, friendship mattered to him even if he ended up doing all the dirty work in the station because he told the station manager he didn't get the story.
Loyalty in friendship, existing but rare. I wish Marvin is my friend - someone who'll stick with me and can never be swayed by money, power and popularity.
I've had lots of Marvins in my life - true friends,that is. But I wish for more...yeah, that's my wish-more Marvins please Lord.
Happy birthday to me.
Friday, August 29, 2008
Where's the fire?
I have always been passionate about life - everything about life. I got that from my father. He taught me how important it is to keep the fire burning, to love everything, to be passionate about life. I am still passionate, I still have the passion to bring out the best, not only for myself but for the people around me. It has never died down but as I grow more mature I have come to realize that things and sometimes people will try to test you. They will try to squeeze out all that passion and leave you with nothing.
But at the end of it all you will end up asking yourself is it worth it? Is my passion worth fighting for? Will I let them take it away?
In this 29 years of existence I have asked myself those questions several times already. And guess what my answer was when my mentor asked me that question yesterday, I said "no it has not died down, its still burning, naka-low lang". =)
Thursday, August 21, 2008
The Kings Reign
My favorite Tubid (#71) was the Finals MVP together with Menk. I was really not a fan of Ginebra until Tubid joined the team, that was after Shell stopped playing for the PBA. Hubby is a die hard fan of Ginebra so that gives me another reason why I should be a Ginebra fan. Lance was watching with us and was cheering for Ginebra. He was shouting “Inebra! Inebra!”. He was even wearing his Ginebra jersey that Hubby bought last weekend. Sayang wasn’t able to take some pictures I was engrossed at the game that I forgot to capture the moment and I could have posted how big Hubby’s smile was. Yes! He was really ecstatic.
Hail to the Gin Kings! PBA Fiesta Conference Champion for 2008!
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Dirty
My parents have always encouraged me to work for the government. I come from a place where working for the government was like a trend or a status symbol but to me it wasn’t appealing. Instead, I applied for a corporate job in a private company thinking that private companies don’t have the kind of politics government offices have, dirty politics.
That was how I see things before…before I started climbing the corporate ladder. I became a middle manager at the age of 23. I have only worked for 2 years and it was during that time that I had my first taste of office politics – to me then it was just office politics. I wish I could dwell on the details of how politics got into my senses but I know it will only bore you.
Moving on…I recently had another bout with office politics. Back then it was just office politics for me but now 6 years after my first encounter with politics I already call it dirty office politics – I didn’t know it can be so dirty. It has caused me sleepless nights and has stressed me out big time. I am not stressed about the issues involved I am so stressed in holding my sanity and my temper. As much as possible I don’t want to deal with these “dirty politicians” but they just get into your nerves and then to your blood stream and to the other parts of your body!
I made a lot of thinking on how to get rid of them or at least make them stop. I have thought of confronting them but as it is in the government no matter how many times you bring the “dirty politicians” to senate for an inquest nothing really happens. I have thought of resigning but I have signed a non-compete agreement and I know it will be difficult to change careers at this time of the year. I have even thought of hiring assassins – just kidding! All peaceful options were explored in my mind but at a certain point I know it won’t work out
Last night as I lay in bed looking at my son I was reminded of the reasons why I work hard. I work hard for the future of my son, of my family and it would be unfair to them if I start to get destructed because of these “dirty politicians”. NO! I won’t let these “dirty politicians” take our dreams away. Quoting Gandhi “No one can hurt me without my permission”, I am not giving them the permission to hurt me or my family.
I will fight them not by force or power. I will endure. I just need to hang on a little more on my sanity and my temper and if worse comes to worst I can always retreat gracefully.
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Long Weekend
Monday, August 4, 2008
Loveme: Missing Tender
I'll miss her. Though she's just few flight hours away I still cried. We have been apart for almost half of our lives (she was admitted in another UP campus) but still I will miss her. If she's here we can always meet up whenever we get extra time or I can always bug her to call me, making several calls and requesting her to call me so that we can talk about anything. I normally do that when I know she's busy and pretend to be upset if she won't call me. (Evil me!) That's just my way of telling her that I miss her.
In the days to come, I will be always on the look out if she's online so that I can start bugging her again.
Friday, August 1, 2008
August 1
I told Hubby I don't want to have a party but he told me that I should celebrate it since next year I'm no longer at my 20's. He said he'll be in charge of the celebration. Well, why should I disagree to that?
I have realized Hubby will also be turning 29 few months from now so would this mean I have to reciprocate? He he he Well, having a party on his birthday is not unusual, its only me who wants to celebrate my birthday privately.Hay! Getting old...yet getting better! Hope so.
August 1, my kumare's birthday. Happy Birthday Atty.Sheing!
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Customer Service
Monday, July 28, 2008
Rainy Days and Mondays
Where was I Friday night? Baby-sitting! While I was supposed to be in Boracay.
Friday, July 25, 2008
2 More
Monday, July 21, 2008
Toy For The Big Boy
I myself is also excited to about his bike because I'll get the chance to ride it as well. Even tried it while he was not looking. So sneaky! I was a bike lover since I was in elementary. I spent my 6th Grade summer vacation trying to learn how to ride the bike. I have to pay my brother so that he would lend me his bike. Riding the bike in the province was a lot fun though but I'll try to have fun and be more careful when I ride it around the village.
Hubby and I agreed to ride on it everyday whenever we have extra time even if its just for 10 minutes. We have been wanting to exercise but hubby says treadmill is boring so he needs to do something else other than treadmill. Well, good luck to us! =)
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Accounting 101
Taking this course happens to be on my list of To Do's for 2008 so I never hesitated when my boss asked me if I want to attend this in-house training even if it meant that I would have to put on hold my other duties. The training was indeed an answer to my prayers.
Our trainor was very good, not to mention she has a very impressive career background. She was brilliant because she was able to get through to her students who are not accountants. Now, I am able to appreciate T Accounts, balance sheets, profit and loss, cash flows and all those basic accounting principles. We were even taught how to do our personal income statements and balance sheets.
Now I am more confident and happy about myself that in 2 days I have learned to value accounting in my day to day existence. My father was right I could have been richer if I followed him and took up accountancy.
And Miss Maribel was right you can never call it accounting for dummies because dummies will never understand the beauty and complexity of accounting.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Wu Chun and Calvin Chen
As ABS CBN calls it 'Asian Invasion' the weekend was really joyous for the fans of Wu Chun and Calvin Chen. Both are stars from the Taiwanese TV series Romantic Princess. However, Wu Chun was first introduced to his Filipino fans when Hana Kimi Taiwan was aired in ABS CBN last summer.
I became a Wu Chun fan (and Ella's as well) after watching the series in dvd. He have checked his blog and it was mentioned in one of his previous posts that he has been requesting his company to send him to the Philippines. I admire Wu Chun not only because of his acting skills but also because of his love for his fans and his work. One of the rare actors who stays grounded even if fame has put him up there.
Calvin on the other hand is Wu Chun's co-star in the series Romantic Princess. His play boy role in the series matches his charming looks in real life. In fact he is looks better when he smiles.
More about Wu Chun and Calvin's visit in www.wuchunfever.com
Friday, July 11, 2008
Blog/s Away
I just need to have my internet connection at home fixed and force my little Lance to sleep a little earlier. That means lesser play time with him in the evening (makes me guilty).Bad mommy!
...until next blog.
Monday, February 25, 2008
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